Candaulism is an unconventional sexual practice that involves sharing and displaying one’s sexual partner to another person, usually a stranger, in a way that gives them a voyeuristic pleasure. It is a form of exhibitionism, where the partner is the object of the other’s erotic and sexual desires. Candaulism is most often practiced between consenting adults, though it is not uncommon to find it also practiced in BDSM scenes.
The practice dates back to the ancient Greeks, where it was known as ‘candaules’. The term is most likely derived from King Candaules of Lydia, who according to legend allowed his trusted bodyguard Gyges to secretly observe his wife while she was undressing, both of which were believed to have enjoyed the act.
In modern times, candaulism usually involves couples, with the couple playing a role-reversal game, wherein the man plays the part of the ‘provider’, and the woman becomes the ‘voyeur’. The woman is made to watch her man as he is being pleasured and aroused by someone else candaulisme, with the intention of increasing her own arousal. Candaulism is seen as a way for couples to explore and share new ways of being intimate while also pushing the boundaries of conventional, socially acceptable consensual sexual behavior, and exploring new sexual roles.
In some cases, people who practice candaulism may also utilize technology to increase the intensity of the experience. This could involve video recording or streaming the activities, letting a third person watch remotely or using interactive sex toys to facilitate mutual pleasure. While these methods are not for everyone, they can help enhance the experience for those who prefer it.
It is important to note that while candaulism can be an enjoyable and thrilling experience for those involved, it is also a practice that requires a lot of trust, respect and communication amongst those involved. Not every couple is comfortable with it and as such it is important that the couple discuss it before engaging in the activity.
Both parties should have full and honest communication including discussing any boundaries or limitations they may have and laying out what is expected of each person involved in the activity so that everyone involved feels safe and secure. It is also important to talk about any fantasies or desires that may come up throughout the activity, so that everybody involved is feeling comfortable and participating fully.
Ultimately, candaulism is an experience that requires a lot of trust and communication, and all parties involved should feel comfortable with the rules and boundaries they have agreed on before pursuing it. While it may not be for everyone, it can be an exciting and enjoyable experience for those who are into exploring new sexual boundaries and enjoy voyeuristic pleasures.